First, an invitation to take a walk through my fake archive:
One year ago in November (2011): Just in time for Christmas-mania, a reminder of what the 5 best toys of all time are, via Geek Dad. Before Ender: or what the psychic said (one of my most naked moments). Being Ender. Ender says Rock. Of Daddies and Grandpas. Art of War: The Lego Contest. Get Less Today!
Two years ago in November (2010): Baby Seductor.
Three years ago in November (2009): Of Brains and Cartilage. He’s a Keeper.
Photo (November) by Cape Cod Cyclists
Second, a thank you to my blogging friends Tatu at Wonderland by Tatu and Little Poppits (who’s real name or preferred handle I haven’t ferreted out yet) from Little Poppits for very sweetly passing the Beautiful Blogger Award on to me. I should also offer a belated thank you to Taurus Mom Tells The Truth and Oliva at The Slama Family Project for trying to pass the Tell Me About Yourself Award and the One Lovely Blog Award to me in the very first day of the blog (my archive is all fake. OK, not fake–all the stories are REAL–written in other fora, but I launched the blog with a ready-made archive. Because I’m that kind of overachiever.)
A short interlude for the Beautiful Blogger Award Rules:
The idea behind the Beautiful Blogger Award is to recognize some of the bloggers we follow for their hard work and inspiration.
1. Copy the Beautiful Blogger Award logo and place it in your post. (Done. And what a technical achievement on my part.)
2. Thank the person who nominated you and link back to their blog. (Thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you. I know there’s a tendency to dismiss these things as an incestuous mutual love fest. But you know what? Moms need that. And Tatu and Little Poppets’ nominations came at a really tough week in my life, and were so appreciated.
3. Tell 7 things about yourself. (Coming just below)
4. Nominate 7 other bloggers for their own Beautiful Blogger Award, and comment on their blogs to let them know. (And that’s going to be a toughie… only seven, eh? I’ve only been digging around the blogosphere for a very short while, but I’m gathering a beautiful tribe around me.)
Seven things about me you probably don’t need to know…
1. My children can get me to do pretty much anything they want if they make Bambi eyes at me. Damn you, Calvin & Hobbes. I’m a permissive parent. And I’m ok with that.
2. I once interviewed former Canadian prime minister Brian Mulroney wearing a snot-covered skirt and no underwear. Because, during the “We don’t want you to go! Why do you have to go?” taxi ride to the airport, the toddler snotted all over my skirt and the pre-schooler took my change of clothes, undies and all, out of my carry-all. Fortunately, they did not abscond with the recorder. (If you’re Canadian and you care about the context for this story, it’s here in full. It’s kind of funny if you’re into Canadian politics. And writer-self-de-construction.)
3. If I ever make good on my threat to freecycle everything I own and travel the continent in an RV, I’m taking my Vitamix with me.
4. When I grow up, I want to be Rex Stout. Except for the beard. And the streak of misogyny. What I really mean is, I want to create a character as compelling as Archie Goodwin. Sometimes, late at night, I fantasize that I’m the woman who finally snared Archie Goodwin. We get married and yes, move into the brownstone. Nero Wolfe hates me… but over time, grudgingly comes to respect me. Until I start having babies…
5. My favourite Jane Austen hero is Henry Crawford. I would so reform him. But I worry I might be too tall for him… He’s barely five eight. I’m just five nine… but I have a thing for footwear of a certain type. Um, moving…
6. My house is only clean when I’m depressed and frustrated. When I’m happy and engaged in my work and my life—and when the children are at their most creative and engaged—the floor is crunchy, the walls are splattered with paint, the stove is spattered with deliciousness, the kitchen table is covered with art scraps, papers, science experiments and cookie crumbs, and the entry way is over-crowded with wet and muddy shoes.
So yes, if you ever come into my house and it’s sparking, the appropriate response is, “Honey, what’s wrong?”
7. There are exactly 98,437 reasons I love my husband, and the three beautiful children we made together are right up there, but most important of all is the fact that whenever he goes grocery shopping, he comes home with chocolate and whipped cream for me. That’s love, baby.
Seven Beautiful Bloggers
So because the award came from WonderlandbyTatu and LittlePoppits, they’ve each named a few of the people I’d be inclined to put on the list right away (Keeping It Real, MomTimes4, Best of Two Sisters, Motherhood Is An Art and Roll Over and Play Dad among them), but the purpose of the game is to spread the love, right? So, please let me introduce you to:
1. Fish Tank Mom. Marie’s my real-life soulmate and partner in crime, unschooling mom to four boys who offers me her unconditional love, support and wisdom no matter what I do. She’ll do the same for you through her posts.
2. Book Of Alice. She doesn’t know it yet, but blogger and writer extraordinaire Christine is raising my Ender’s future wife. I’m waiting until I know her a little better before I start the marriage negotiations.
3. Cloudy With a Chance of Wine. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I think WonderlandbyTatu and LittlePoppits are absolutely, unquestionably beautiful bloggers. Cloudy’s more of a kick-your-ass with an uber-sexy-boot blogger–which I think is the most beautiful of all. Someone else, I just saw, beat me to nominating her for something, but tough titties. This woman almost cast as a hooker in a Chinese soap opera. I need to give this award to her.
4. Wonder Farm. Patricia Zaballos is a former teacher, current writer, and all-around amazing human being who writes on alternative (or creative? or just awesome) approaches to education–one of my first cyber connections, and one of my most intellectually rewarding ones. And she’s just written a very exciting book! Check out her beautiful body of writing.
5. Confessions of a Mommyholic. Janine is also swimming in awards right now, so I will immediately exempt her (as I do all of you) from any compulsion to continue the madness and pass yet another one one, but I need to introduce her to those of you who don’t know her. She’s nothing like me. Her blog is nothing like mine. I adore her. I think it’s because she’s so thoroughly genuine… and I value and envy that quality.
6. World School Adventures. Amy and her family are living my dream. They’re currently in Thailand. I try to enjoy and not covet their adventures. Mostly, I fail. Mostly, I covet. And you will too.
7. An Untidy Life. A brand-spanking new blogger. Mom to three funky boys, and one of the most fascinating people I know in real life has just started blogging about her family’s learning adventures, and I’m so thrilled. Connect with her. It will be a worthwhile experience.
And that is that. With the authority vested in me, I absolve all nominees from feeling like that need to perpetuate the award unless they really want to and will enjoy the process.
Come back to Nothing By The Book on Monday for an arrogant exposition on freely given attention.
Oh, and friends, I know I’m supposed to go to your blogs and tell you about the award, and I will… soon. Life, she’s a tough mistress sometimes. But in the meantime, xoxoxo
Congratulations, friend! You so deserve this Beautiful Award! Maybe a paid vacation to Jamaica as well. Sounds like you’ve been working hard lately.
By the way, I can really identify with number six on your list. My house is only clean when I am unsettled. Suppose it’s nervous energy. But I can’t tell you how washing dishes relaxes me during those rough moments. It’s like therapy! 🙂
Wow Jane, I am totally humbled and honored to say the least. You made my Friday morning that will included getting Christmas pictures take of the kids at Target (this will be nothing short of blog worthy in itself with my husband and kids there for the show!). But seriously, I am so happy to have connected with you in this world of blogging and writing even though our styles may be a bit different I think we can always find some common ground in topics that we write. Thank you so very much again!!
Oh my! Thanks so much for the nomination! I’m honored! And no worries – I can give shout outs to BOTH of you when I post about this award on my blog! It will likely be next weekend!!! xo
Well, shucks. I am humbled. Thanks, Jane. You are super.
My secret plan to secure a funny and brilliant bride for Ender proceeding on schedule…
You didn’t have to come tell me on my blog, because your WordPress blog pingbacked mine. Pretty nifty how our blogs can talk to each other while we do more pressing things, huh?
Dang, that is one lovely testimonial for my blog. You like it for all the reasons I’d want it to be liked! Thank you, Jane.
I love your seven things, especially your permissive parenting and crunchy floors. And I’m with you on the Vitamix.
Awesome. You were one of my first “lightpoints” when I started wading through the blogosphere and tweetosphere, and remain such.
Loved #2 about you. Funny. Ah, kids!
Wow – thank you! And with only, what, 3 posts under my belt? I’m genuinely flattered you would put me in the same category as these amazing women. I’ll get my response post up ASAP. See you in 30 minutes 😉
It’s cause I love you and I want other people to find you ASAP. xoxo
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Hi Jane, I’ve quoted this post on my blog (with a link back, of course):
It’s at the end of the post – hope this is OK!
How lovely, thank you, Kate! I’ll have a peek soon.
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